Marrying a Pakistani man

Submitted by Rose Garay (United States), Dec 8, 2019 at 19:40

I also fell in love with a Pakistani man. We have only texted and spoke on the phone.At first we were sappy sweet in our communications.Then the texts started getting more serious &X-Rated.He told me he wanted marriage, and to go to the USA. Stupidly I suggested that I travel to Pakistan,we get married and take a short cut on the paperwork for his Visa.I am going to receive a small settlement this month. Prior to this information this guy never mentioned his financial picture,on the negative side.He broke my heart informing me that he just wanted to be friends and he didn't want marriage.He would get to USA on his own, don't get the 4 bedroom house, get a 3 bedroom place since he won't be living with me or accepting my help.

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