Stop hurting women

Submitted by Have been had (United States), Oct 7, 2020 at 14:45

I have been married to an Egyptian man for almost five years. He lives in Alexandria. He will be 38 in October. He confesses his love like no other man I have known. I believed his every intentions. I noticed that every time he ask for money and I tell him I will think about it he would get upset and he becomes very indifferent and non-communicative with me.

Recently an incident happened. I included him on my credit cards because immigration wanted us to prove financial history together. He promised not to use the cards.

I just found out on 9/23/2020 that my husband has been charging the card since 7/28/2020 and made purchases over $3800.00 without my consent.

When I tried to discuss with him. He used reverse psychology on me, and attempted to make me feel guilty for his bad intentions. Then he has the nerve to tell me that our marriage is over.
Marriage is over because he used me financially to purchase his new place, purchase a car to start Uber, remodeled his apartment to make him more comfortable, and have ex amount in his bank account.

It is so sad that this man confessed that he loves and believes in Allah, but does not practice what Allah want us to do. Take care of each other and be honest with each other, especially if you are married. I even feel like he married me to get entry into the US. Thank God that they saw through home and denied the application. I have appealed and waiting. But from the looks of his behavior I believe this is a true sign to terminate all ties.

I am so hurt because I trusted this man. Even when my friends and family warned me against this man. Didn't believe he was like any Egyptian man. I honestly thought he was different. I am not sure how to recover from this. I have been had for almost five years.

Ladies just FYI. It appears as if these Egyptian men take a class on how to smooth talk a woman. If you meet one beware! Don't fall for their sweet talks. They tell you everything you want to hear. It seems as if they belong to a club because they use the same lame lines. Sad that I was one of the women that fell for this deceitful man. In closing I do believe karma will get those that just aim to use and hurt others.

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