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Submitted by Ludvikus (United States), Feb 10, 2022 at 10:27

I think the answer to your query relates to the Enlightenment notion of "Tolerance" which may be lost among conservatives. Actually, I have not yet figured out all the variations regarding the acronym LGBTQ.

But my answer is that there are three (3) options:

(1) On a medical chart, not involving Psychology pr Psychiatry, give your genetic state; but if asked by those other 2 medical professionals, give your sexual/emotional preferences.

(2) Here is the easy and polite, privacy-preserving, answer: Tolerance.

(3) But on a Dating Internet Platform, obviously the "correct" answer would be Male or Female for most of us in the Majority of the human species (notice that I did not say race); however, there is the reality of the Minority in the world of several Billion People.

(4) Finally - but rarely - there is the aggressive belligerent attach on us straight people where there is no alternative to the retort: "If you cannot tell by looking at me, than it's non of your f_cking business."

However, the fact or reality is that all the those humans (or huwomans - I'm joking) who choose to identify with the acronym LGBTQ are extremely oppressed, arguably even more so that People of Color or Straight Females. That's why I wish to remind all Conservatives especially of our democratic adage" "Live and let Live."

I think behind this question lies the fact that Conservatives support the "traditional family"; that obviously means supporting "straight" men and women in marriage and parenting. However, that implicitly implies discrimination against those who fall under said acronym.

However, even though you present yourself as a Conservative, Dr. Daniel Pipes, I believe you are Tolerant of Homosexuals (to use the old-fashioned term). But I don't know what your specific and explicit views are on Homosexual Marriage? Or whether you support the right of Gay Couples (or Lesbian Couples) adopting children?

I believe that, like me, your "sexual orientation" is simply that of a Male towards a Female (Human). But that puts you in the Majority. So what is your view regarding the oppressed LGBTQ International Majority?

I do not see how one can address your question - until you present your views on the LGBTQ Question. Here I want to remind you of the so-called Jewish Question (or Jewish Problem) which led to the Holocaust ("Final Solution") and finally to the Jewish State of Israel. Should there be a Country, a Gay Country, where Homosexuals can live as such? I'm only asking that rhetorically to demonstrate the social difficulties which the LGBTQ people endure and suffer. Actually, the Ancient Greeks, history informs us, were quite tolerant of elder men "loving" young men. But that changed drastically with the rise of the Three Abrahamic Religions.

In summary, the answer to the question raised here depends of whether or not Conservatives TOLERATE all the diverse members of this Rainbow Coalition that, Politically, or Ideologically subscribes itself under the rubric of the LGBTQ acronym.

PS 1: L & G & B are relatively easy to understand; I'm now going to research T & Q.

PS 2: Maybe the answer to your questing is not to give the pronoun (you omitted "they/them" by the way), but to specify by choosing one of the five letters: L, G, B, T, & Q?

Submitting....

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Title Commenter Date Thread
Linguist's response [76 words]PeterJan 29, 2023 10:18291793
1Linguist's response [76 words]PeterJan 28, 2023 11:02291752
1answer on pronouns [78 words]
w/response from Daniel Pipes
James KahnMar 20, 2022 14:00279421
1Possible Explanation [112 words]
w/response from Daniel Pipes
GilMar 11, 2022 19:47279314
2"You seem like a tolerant person... [29 words]KeithMar 1, 2022 00:30279170
2"I'm either a closet homosexual or what I look like." "And it's non of your Fxxxing business." [76 words]LudvikusFeb 20, 2022 05:37279065
2Privacy v. Tolerance [292 words]
w/response from Daniel Pipes
LudvikusFeb 20, 2022 05:21279064
2A Tit for Tat [16 words]RenoxMar 6, 2022 22:33279064
2Just call me "Stalin" [55 words]Charles MartelFeb 19, 2022 04:00279057
2Heshe and/or Shehe: A partial, simple, solution to a difficult issue. Also, Himher and/or Herhim. [182 words]LudvikusFeb 18, 2022 11:26279050
1Here's another way to answer [17 words]AnonFeb 16, 2022 00:18278996
2Gender assignment [116 words]JeffFeb 15, 2022 17:11278991
3Much more universal, gender-neutral pronouns. [69 words]KevinFeb 13, 2022 21:01278943
you better speak gender-specific Hebrew [17 words]mythFeb 14, 2022 10:55278943
I spell M... [32 words]mythFeb 13, 2022 11:16278938
4Our enemies must notice this insanity [73 words]
w/response from Daniel Pipes
DaveFeb 12, 2022 15:30278919
3The short term blame goes to Trump, Biden and circa 2020-democrats [143 words]PrashantFeb 13, 2022 13:52278919
1America's Trivial Pursuit of Political Trivialities Extends Much Further Back - President Trump Merely Revealed How Bad [250 words]M ToveyFeb 14, 2022 11:46278919
Putin calendar [20 words]mythFeb 15, 2022 18:00278919
3In the Immortal Words of Charlie Brown, "AAAAAUUUUGH!" [156 words]KephaFeb 11, 2022 23:59278891
2What about "you"? [19 words]MalcolmFeb 11, 2022 20:25278887
4Tyranny with a velvet glove. [42 words]PhanFeb 10, 2022 22:51278850
Depreciation of Human Value by Inhuman Means [260 words]M ToveyFeb 11, 2022 15:15278850
1Just one problem, Phan [25 words]JeffFeb 12, 2022 13:47278850
2I am a man/male. [83 words]PrashantFeb 10, 2022 20:11278845
My opportunist pronouns [97 words]DaveFeb 10, 2022 19:57278842
2I Avoid Pronouns [23 words]AJCFeb 10, 2022 14:49278835
Questioning Medicine that Cannot Recognize the Obvious [184 words]M ToveyFeb 10, 2022 11:49278829
Tolerance [551 words]LudvikusFeb 10, 2022 10:27278826
The Lost Message of Conservatism [191 words]M ToveyFeb 10, 2022 18:57278826
1HE or SHE [47 words]RobertFeb 11, 2022 14:26278826
Because It is Written in HIS Terms [134 words]M ToveyFeb 12, 2022 01:16278826
1useless... [63 words]Tim RouseFeb 10, 2022 10:19278825

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