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is sex all one sided in islam?
Reader comment on item: Female Desire and Islamic Trauma
Submitted by justin (United Kingdom), Sep 4, 2010 at 04:25
just a quick question for the muslims out there. In reality, regardless of what the koran says, are muslim women allowed to enjoy sex in marriage or is this act seen as simply for male pleasure? secondly what are people's stances on female genital mutilation?
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| Hadith condemns majority of women to hell and turns up a few go paradise. Some Muslims do not believe in hadith for this cause. [45 words] | zuma | Jul 14, 2017 04:19 | 239971 | ||
| double standards [73 words] | alpha | Jan 15, 2013 02:07 | 202609 | ||
| 13 | Arab world basically homosexual [264 words] | Jason | Nov 15, 2012 17:20 | 200654 | |
| 1 |  Jason needs to read some good news paper [58 words] | Prashant | Nov 16, 2012 01:09 | 200654 | |
| Take a good look at who is behind the extremism [232 words] | Jason | Nov 17, 2012 09:33 | 200654 | ||
| drawing of 2 arabic men on fig leaf [15 words] | Cory holmes | Sep 20, 2015 13:58 | 200654 | ||
| Part of it [14 words] | Nouri Obayda | Dec 2, 2016 20:03 | 200654 | ||
| How do they do it? [51 words] | salkey | May 4, 2012 07:14 | 195423 | ||
| 1 | Women today [102 words] | salkey | May 4, 2012 07:14 | 195422 | |
| 1 |  is sex all one sided in islam? [45 words] | justin | Sep 4, 2010 04:25 | 177666 | |
| 1 | Interesting question, something that always gets Muslims uncomfortable [98 words] | Abdullah K. | Feb 1, 2011 23:41 | 177666 | |
| open minded [37 words] | rachna | Sep 4, 2010 04:11 | 177664 | ||
| Wow. [123 words] | Waseem | Jul 27, 2010 12:37 | 176101 | ||
| sharia compliant online sexshop El Asira [74 words] | myth | Apr 17, 2010 09:08 | 171394 | ||
| 1 | the koran and islamists culture mess up something as wonderful as sex. [158 words] | Phil Greend | Aug 26, 2009 21:43 | 160677 | |
| Good Muslims VS horrible things that some muslims do [286 words] | Sarah | Mar 6, 2010 07:44 | 160677 | ||
| sure [20 words] | John | Oct 5, 2014 08:10 | 160677 | ||
| Is it true? [159 words] | MS | Jul 21, 2009 10:14 | 159098 | ||
| Disgusting [93 words] | Abbi | Mar 8, 2009 14:55 | 151870 | ||
| we must Understand Islam [248 words] | shabir Ahmad | Jan 17, 2009 06:02 | 148260 | ||
| 2 | Misconception Of Power Of Women in Islam [179 words] | Shaikh Muhyiddin | Jul 31, 2008 04:40 | 135958 | |
| Shame [128 words] | Elaine | Oct 10, 2008 22:40 | 135958 | ||
| 1 | Islam have nothing to do Arab culture [91 words] | think please | Aug 20, 2009 08:18 | 135958 | |
| 1 | Respect for women in Islam is the highest lie [63 words] | avi | Aug 31, 2014 04:44 | 135958 | |
| Respect for women in Islam is the highest lie [64 words] | avi | Aug 31, 2014 05:47 | 135958 | ||
| Sure Islam is the best [45 words] | John | Oct 5, 2014 08:06 | 135958 | ||
| rethink your "thinking" [176 words] | Ahmad | Dec 9, 2014 21:36 | 135958 | ||
| 1 | Chalk up another "victory" for fundamentalist Muslim men [206 words] | jennifer solis | Dec 11, 2007 17:44 | 116030 | |
| My Daughter-islam [132 words] | Chris Hibbert | Jan 2, 2008 09:55 | 116030 | ||
| I happen to know for a fact that it is forbidden by Allah for any man to force his female mate to worship him [131 words] | Renee | Aug 5, 2006 09:57 | 51712 | ||
| 1 | Renee (United States), Aug 5, 2006 at 09:57 [73 words] | Gabrielle | Apr 27, 2008 05:24 | 51712 | |
| Again we agree! [331 words] | Anne | May 6, 2006 12:11 | 44955 | ||
| The truth of ISLAM [106 words] | Mashour | Feb 21, 2006 03:07 | 36667 | ||
| 3 | response [91 words] | Kevin M | Jul 3, 2006 18:19 | 36667 | |
| 2 | "...the last thing i would like to mention is that Islam is the religion of equality between men and women ... " [5 words] | Jim McDonald | Jul 4, 2006 12:26 | 36667 | |
| blames ..blames.. [211 words] | Marco | Dec 5, 2005 16:27 | 29458 | ||
| "Extreme Reactions to Abu Ghairab Torture?" [345 words] | Ms.J Gotchet/Kuwait | Jan 24, 2005 15:28 | 19831 | ||
| A different view [188 words] | Turthspeaker | Jul 10, 2008 13:21 | 19831 | ||
| 1 | QURAN & TORTURE - QURANIC TORTURE - ISLAMIC TORTURE [6547 words] | Mina | Mar 2, 2009 19:12 | 19831 | |
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| Cruelty to animals [31 words] | geirgia | Feb 11, 2012 02:55 | 19831 | ||
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| I would like to disagree [295 words] | Nadia I. | Mar 21, 2008 12:22 | 19056 | ||
| 3 | Dont judge me but I will judge you. [78 words] | Sarah | Mar 6, 2010 12:21 | 19056 | |
| Insightful [59 words] | Fred | Oct 22, 2004 00:03 | 17846 | ||
| 4 | Understanding Islam [1601 words] | Reema Saffarini | Jun 28, 2004 07:11 | 15813 | |
| 1 | Response to female desire letter in Islamic world [129 words] | Donald | Jul 3, 2006 13:21 | 15813 | |
| look at the source [64 words] | irfan | Jul 3, 2006 16:56 | 15813 | ||
| 3 | For Reema: the enemy of Islam is the media? you are kidding me! [202 words] | dhimmi no more | Jul 4, 2006 12:37 | 15813 | |
| "Living a Lie" response [111 words] | Donald | Jul 4, 2006 18:30 | 15813 | ||
| "Living a Lie" one more time [40 words] | Donald | Jul 4, 2006 19:03 | 15813 | ||
| To Donald [492 words] | Reema | Aug 7, 2006 09:01 | 15813 | ||
| 2 | No the media is not the enemy of Islam. And I am not kidding! [820 words] | Reema | Aug 7, 2006 09:11 | 15813 | |
| 2 | For Reema: al-tihara al-sunni, "my best friend is Christian" and other sordid matters!! [1075 words] | dhimmi no more | Aug 7, 2006 19:54 | 15813 | |
| 2 | For Reema: Islam and polemics, and "one of my closest friend is a Christian" part two!! [979 words] | dhimmi no more | Aug 8, 2006 07:45 | 15813 | |
| 1 | Well... [197 words] | Reema | Aug 9, 2006 01:36 | 15813 | |
| For Reema: I know that you meant well! [681 words] | dhimmi no more | Aug 9, 2006 18:20 | 15813 | ||
| 1 | still fooled [133 words] | Donald | Aug 15, 2006 15:56 | 15813 | |
| 1 | TO DHIMMI NO MORE [338 words] | annonomus | Oct 22, 2006 18:39 | 15813 | |
| dhimmi you have no clue what you are talking bout [124 words] | annonomus | Oct 22, 2006 18:47 | 15813 | ||
| 1 | For Annomous: and yawn big time! [74 words] | dhimmi no more | Oct 23, 2006 18:43 | 15813 | |
| 1 | For annonomus and Muslim fantasy! [35 words] | dhimmi no more | Oct 23, 2006 18:48 | 15813 | |
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| 1 | gee dhimmi your idea of religon is so distorted [249 words] | annonomus | Oct 25, 2006 09:24 | 15813 | |
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| 1 | how can we follow a person who gave these rules some hundreds or thousands years ago [101 words] | someone | Oct 2, 2009 11:48 | 15813 | |
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| Sex and Intimacy [246 words] | Hedley Robinson | Jun 5, 2004 19:38 | 15551 | ||
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| 1 | Women in Islam [327 words] | Allyson Rowen Taylor | May 28, 2004 22:47 | 15405 |
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| Further reading... [21 words] | Kirsten H | May 25, 2004 13:09 | 15345 | ||
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