Swedes are cheaters!

Submitted by harumi.sweetheart1990 (Philippines), Jan 15, 2013 at 21:25

I haven't been to Sweden yet but I already encountered some Swedes especially from the dating sites. There's this Swedish man that I met 2 years ago. We used to chat twice a week. He seemed nice and sweet at first. He promised me that he will come and visit Philippines to spend time with me. He acted like he was my boyfriend when we were chattting but when he speak, he seemed to feel like he is superior because I can see the way he criticize Philippines. According to him, if he will be visiting Philippines, he must be very careful because my country has lots of robbers. He was judging my country a lot in which, it offended me so much because I live in the Philippines, I am a Filipina and I know my country very much. My country is somewhat different from his descriptions.

Well, let me go back to what I said about his promises of coming to my country. Yes, he told me a lot of promises. According to him, he won't be paying again his membership on the datingsite where we met because he already found me. He used to tell me sweet words which of course, made me fall inlove with him. I was able to observe his attitude and he seemed like a lunatic type of person because there are times that he may seem so sweet but there are also times that it seems he's losing interest.

He used to tell me before that he will be visiting the Philippines on the month of January. I was so excited during that time because of course, I would be able to meet him in person. When January came, he seemed to be losing his interest and I can feel it the way he chatted with me. I felt that there was something unusual happening. Our chat would only last for about 30 minutes unlike before that our chat would last for about 4 hours and beyond.

When January came, I always see him online at yahoo messenger and even if it seems obvious that I am online too, he's no longer chatting with me. It was always me who tried to catch his attention. What I mean is, it was always me who's the first one to send him a message in order for us to chat. He seemed to be very cold already. I was so confuse. I knew that he was already in the Philippines but he did not tell me about it at first. On the second day of his stay, I felt that I could not take the pain I'm feeling because of his coldness so I sent him a message and asked him what happened why he's acting weird. He suddenly told me that he's with another Filipina in Manila. I felt really hurt with what he said because he gave me false hopes when we were still chatting. He even told me that he's hoping that girl would also like him. On that time, I felt that the world has crushed and I had the difficulty to breath because of too much pain I felt. That gave me the idea that he's such a cheater! We were already bf gf when we were chatting and he promised me with so many things! and I am not the only person who encoutered that kind of attitude with a Swede. I also have many friends who are chatting with Swedes and according to them, majority of the Swedes are liar! They don't care if they are offending the people around them.

Swedes (men) are so arrogant! They always claim to be the most handsome men on earth and that they are always saying that they are the most successful people. Lastly, they also claim that they speak better English than other Europeans do. Shame on them! They cannot even formulate correct English gramars! They should not be welcomed in the other country especially in the Philippines because they are so racist and the most liar people ever created on earth!

I am just thankful that I've moved on and I have found my true love already. He's an American. We got married and he's very responsible, sweet and he's so kind to my family. He used to give gifts to my family even if they were not asking for anything from my American husband.

The purpose of this comment is to warn the girls out there especially those girls who are on a dating site and are interacting with Swede men. .

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