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Submitted by Lina (United Kingdom), Feb 9, 2021 at 17:05

You are the opposite of what the guy called you. He told you all those things to break your ego, when he himself is all of them. The trouble is, we put these men on a pedestal and believe them to be deserving of praise and worship. Because in my faith when you marry someone you become one, and your husband becomes your king, your provider and protector. So when these false kings insult us we believe them and constantly seek to improve on what we're lacking. This is what they want. These clowns want us running around in circles for them like headless chickens. But no matter what we do it's never good enough as we're not from the right background. Men fall in love with women that share their values and fit their lifestyle.

I've found that Egyptian men especially are very good at reading characters and many study psychology. My advice is to avoid the young ones, as most will have an arranged marriage on the cards. The older or divorced ones are probably a better option, if any lol.

I have now put all my love into myself and God, and the feeling is so much different. To be loved unconditionally, for who you really are, is a powerful feeling. Meditation is also helpful to remove negative emotions. I wish you all the best!

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