Rat or not

Submitted by Mimi (Italy), Jan 31, 2022 at 13:42

Good evening everyone. I haven't sent him money in a long time. And I haven't done anything else in a long time, but he is one. He promised to send me some of the money to show me that he is an honest Muslim and honestly. But I've been waiting for 6 months and he still hasn't sent. I told him that until I saw that he was doing this, nothing would happen between us.Then we would get married in his country. Many people say that it is not acceptable for a Muslim to marry a woman older than him. But he says he does not care what he says the world he wants to live in peace and quiet with me. I don't know his family or friends and we have been talking for 2 years. He said that he is aware that neither my family nor his family will be that they won't agree so we'll tell them when we get married. I don't know what to think. Please give me some advice.

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