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Submitted by jessica (canada) (Canada), Feb 12, 2021 at 18:23

yes Chuc mung nam moi!! new year in here is totally different from back home. i came here since i was 6 year old that is very long long time ago. Don't remember much back home except my house that's all and havent been back since. You just left V.N only 8 years ago that is not too long compare to me haha.

Thanks for replying back to me as i just saw your post. im not on here very often now just come on here sometime. i been here for 7 years and all the posts are so much similar. women being scams by this so called filthy rats. I dont think it will change now or very much in the future. these men are so ingrained . they were how they brought up to be. except a few exceptional. family valued are so important. if a father doesn't respect any women most likely the son does the same and dont respect any women. You have to look for the one that works hard. doesn't ask any money at all. and most importantly Women don't PAY FOR LOVE. i KNOW its very rare this kind of muslim men. but it does happen. Mohamed respected me so much all these 7 years we been together and never ask me for anything, and paid for me everything while i was in Morocco. bargaining for me in the Souk and medina.But doesnt mean i dont guard myself. He told me himself many many times he dont like muslim men and women. he know they are not honest and women only wants money. He told me most muslim men are LIAR lol. They compare and complain who had the most wealth he said. He loves his mom so much but he passed 3 months ago at the age of 57 so young. Dont give him what he want and let him wait for you and beg for you. to test how patience he is and the attitude he is. i cannot count how many time he ask me for marriage and i still didn't say yes yet. like i said in here countless of time. i have no rush at all. as long as we are good what else matter. He is not the kind of muslim men that treat a woman as a child bearing machine an object, clean and cook. he know that would be not me. . he's thinking is more westernized compare to any muslim men. he dont pray 5 times a day at all. Me and him both agree is your heart is good not hurting anyone no need to pray all the time. Good heart is within yourself. So what if you are praying all the time and you are bad and hurt others and scams women and did horrible things to others, Doesnt make you a good human being if you pray.

I hope you will get over him soon just like what the ladies in here told you to do. you might needs to go to a support group in your area and come here often and heel your heart. Don't hurt yourself to drink beer and wine before you go to bed. He is TRASH and so does his wife or girlfriend. Scrape the shit out of your shoes and move on with your life. I know it hurt in the beginning but in time you will feel better.. BLOCK everything from him. all social media and his phone number. block all the strange number that he used and tried to call you. or just change your phone number. You will feel better when all these are done. go pampered yourself and goes out with friends. YOU will be OK,
Tell yourself you are worth it, nothing is important than your own daughter. TAKE CARE, ALL THE BEST!!

Jessie

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