To N and S

Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), Feb 11, 2021 at 21:19

Hello dear N and S

This is what he wanted-to destroy you and to use you to his advantage...DON'T LET HIM TO!!!!

You are much stronger than you think,but you don't know that yet, until there is a time where BEING STRONG is the only option.

I just wanted to let you know that most of us here got scolded by those men. All of us in this forum -were,at different extent.
In a process of recovery(after your best qualities were used against you),all of us had some good and bad days,when everything seems to be back to normal, and then-out of sudden,you got stumbled by bad memories....some words you may suddenly hear,old romantic song, some places or events, that may trigger those memories we all hide in the far backs of our heads...

Be prepared for that,but don't get discouraged.
Finding your way to this forum is one of the best things on your path to recovery.
Here we share our experiences and support to other who come here for help and advise.
And also -to show that going through tough situations only make us one lifetime wiser and stronger.
Coming to that point takes time, for sure.

Learn to love yourself again,no matter what.
Remind yourself of how wonderful person you are,how unique!
There is a YouTube channel, called Soul GPS,that has some helpful videos , to help to recover from

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