Sharing a story only-Moroccan Man

Submitted by Michelle (United States), Jun 22, 2007 at 00:23

Only to share a story-not dogging Moroccan men, perhaps I'm dogging crazy american woman

Hi,

Tonight I was talking to my Moroccan man on the telephone.....we've never met face to face but talk on the phone several times a day and meet online. This is our relationship till we meet. We've been this close for 18 months....I am older than him by 20 years, he is 33, tonight I felt like his 'supposedly sugar momma'..not his future wife as he says......and that reality sucked!

He is a musician and wanted to go to another city for a festival, so he asked me if I could wire him $200 for his trip with friends...now this was a non-business trip for him but a pleasure trip. He calls me his wife and feels we should act as husband and wife even though we're not physically together. Tonight this pissed me off and I tried to not react on the phone cause I'M VERY DIRECT 'USUALLY'. He is unemployed..other than the money he earns playing at concerts from time to time, which is rare. I'M SO IRKED.

The reason I'm writing this is to say...he is not a bad person....I'm the stupid ass, he is trying to better his life....by screwing me over, thank god I'm not THAT STUPID..where I can't see all this....

I'm ending it, I'm not going to take his calls any longer......and I'm sad...cause he is charismatic and has become my best friend through these months....I wish I understood the Moroccan Culture much better and why these men prey on us STUPID WOMEN....Dear god, I just read what I typed..anyway, I want to crawl in his brain and understand all this mentality....but arrrrrrrrrrrgggh, I'm pissed. I've had a very open heart to him, it is my nature and way...I trust people easily till they try to screw me over. Not a pretty picture

Wishing you all the best and I know not all Moroccans are like this. I will miss him. crazy eh?

Good Luck All,

the apparrent Suga' Moma.......(Michelle)

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