Im one of those stupid women!

Submitted by T Anom (United Kingdom), Jun 23, 2007 at 08:55

Yes, I read the stories in all the magazines but was convinced my Turkish man wasnt like that! I married him, loved him, sorted out all paperwork for him to come to England, and only now 3 years down the line when he is still not with me I am realising what a stupid cow I have been. I got in to £20,000 worth of debt for him, and still he says he loves me and will come back to be with me in December.

I dont think I can stop loving him but I need to wake up and realise perhaps his words arent true and he doesnt really want me. This is extremely hard to do.

I have read with interest and sadness the comments on this site, and with all my being wanted him to be different but I fear he is not, I dont think I really mean anything to him.

Unfortunately, you cant make someone love you and tell you the truth, but if you love them you believe all their lies.

I have been through hell the last year and still I dont know what I am to do, my heart says one thing and my sensible head says another.

But I would like to say I wish everyone on here to find peace in their hearts and happiness in their lives.

God bless.

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