The Truth and my story - stop before you lose your heart and your money

Submitted by Pissed off wife of mohamed (United States), Jul 7, 2007 at 14:41

I too fell for the bs words, and all the I will love you forever till I die. He is from Egypt, divorced, and a captain of the police force there. To marry me, he had to step down from that position, which he did and waited for me to fly to him. Oh I sure did, I know now what a fool, he treated me very well as did his family, now I see they saw the sugar mama from America, the cash cow in the home.

I stayed a month we got married in an Islamic marriage, and he had this done the minute we got to his home. All his family there, but during the marriage only men were present. So it is all grooving nicely and I return home, and then he starts to not come around anymore, always excuses, like for a while once a week, than it went to two weeks, than three weeks, than it gets up to I would hear from him once a month, then now it has been maybe month and half. No calls, no emails, nothing,

I am guessing he found another cash cow who has more money and is hooking up with her. Heartbroken and broke from me buying the plane tickets over there, and now I am just pissed off. I went to another site called visa journey, and posed the question to the women who are in love with north African and middle eastern men, how many of you paid for your own ticket over.

Only two of maybe 50 women answered that yes they paid for their own ticket. I never sent my husband anything, I am a social worker, don't have that kind of money, but I did buy my ticket. I guess what I don't understand is in Islamic law isn't the man suppose to do this? I guess we are nothing to them, now this Moroccan is trying to get me to come over to him; this guy is even smoother than my husband was. This guy calls me all the time and I am going to play that hard. Yea now I am just pissed off and I got your green card right here

WAKE UP LADIES, THESE MEN ARE NOT REAL MEN, THEY ARE LITTLE BITCHES THAT SUCK YOU DRY. Would they let their sisters, mothers, pay for a man there, you know what answer, so that tells you right there, you are below that, so he really doesn't even see you as worth as women in his country and they don't treat them so great, how do you think they will treat you. I agree, they are after the green card, no doubt about it. Give it 5 years and they will be gone, unless you are loaded with money. I trust none of them anymore, and oh yea, I am going to marry all of them, drop them off in South L.A. and dress him in some gang colors and let them homies take the trash out.

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