I am confused by my Turkish man's behavior

Submitted by Samantha (United States), Aug 1, 2007 at 22:27

Hi All: I was wondering if anyone out there could help me with something I find confusing about my experiences with 2 Turkish men. Both men thought that my daughter was really wonderful and showered her with affection and attention. They both have told her they love her, miss her and that she is beautiful, and etc, yet they never said that to me or showed me the same affection. Is this a cultural thing? I am not sure how to discuss this with my current boyfriend, since his behavior is similar. I really like this man and we have a wonderful time and he would make a great father to my child. He is very educated and I don't feel that he is after my money or a green card at all. I am just not sure what to make of it. Any comment would be welcomed. Thanks and have a great evening.....Samantha

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