In response to another american

Submitted by anonymous (United States), Aug 14, 2007 at 17:34

I agree with you, although I am talking to a Moroccan man also. He tells me everything I want to hear...lol When we're on the phone I really believe he's genuine, but then I start thinking about things and wondering if he's for real or not. He says the same kinds of things that the Moroccan man says to Becky Sue. He will never leave me, don't listen to bad peoples, he wants me to send him money to help him come over here, but I haven't figured out yet if he just wants money from me and is never really coming, or he's genuine. How can I know? They're not all bad, that are good Moroccan men. It's impossible to tell if he's telling me the truth or not.

The biggest red flag I have is that I offered to go there and see him, and then come back and apply for a fiance visa. He quickly turned that down, saying he already has the papers to come here on a tourist visa, just needs to pay for it and have the interview. That started me thinking...

In the meantime, I've been talking to another man from Morocco, he is just as sweet. We are just friends, although he would like more, but he respects the fact that I am with someone. He's been telling me I should come over and see him, I am welcome there. So that made my red flag even larger...the man that is supposed to love me doesnt want me to come see him. He just wants money to come here.

Maybe the man I'm seeing doesn't really want to meet me or have any ideas about coming here, maybe he's just hoping I'm going to pay his bills. He supposedly has two jobs...why does he need money from me anyway?

Everytime I come to this site I start questioning everything... but maybe that's because there's a lot of reality here, and American women that have been through hell that are trying to warn other American women.

Anyway, it's tough, and I wish the best for Becky Sue.

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