In response to Josianne

Submitted by anonymous (United States), Aug 16, 2007 at 17:00

How in the world does your sister communicate with him if he doesn't speak any English? I have been talking to a man from a small town too, but he does have a pretty good command of the English language. I don't know how we would communicate otherwise.

I think from what I've read, most men there are looking for a better life and seeking partners in other countries, mainly the USA. I don't have a problem with that, I would probably do the same thing. But if he isn't self-sufficient and your sister is going to be supporting him, she will regret it. His charm and sweetness can only carry him so far, she will get tired of him. Hands down...

Maybe try to find some articles on the web, I have read so many things just looking around that would be helpful to her. For me it's different, I've already been married, had my kids, its just for me now. But for your sister, she is just starting out. She needs to find someone that will make her happy in all aspects of a relationship and marriage, and be able to support his children. Good luck.

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