Jessica

Submitted by Donna (United States), Aug 16, 2007 at 20:29

I am sure everyone here will jump to the conclusion that he is a bad man, however, it may be that he is stressed out due to the lengthy visit of his family. It is also very possible that they are pressuring him to get married while they are there. It is not uncommon for visiting family members to cause choas and to stess people to the breaking point. I am sure if this was an american man...most would be telling you the same thing I am, and not the cut-and-run technique. You yourself need to talk to him and tell him of your concerns, and basically say to him the things you think may be causing the problem. Many times, all men have problems talking about pressures and stress, and especially family. Good luck.

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