live and let live others

Submitted by tariq sultan (United States), Aug 23, 2007 at 05:42

Hi there,

In your situation all I can say that it's nothing you shouldn't be worry about. The cultural and faith differences are always vital. However, if he is still good with you and your son then have some patience. It's not the religion it's how you practice it????? There are lot of Muslims, Christians or Jews who don't practice the religion; but it doesn't mean that there is some trouble with the faith......it's only with the individuals. And let me tell you it's all compromising from both ends........if you have learn the art of compromising then I guarantee you to win in any situation. Life is very short so that waste time to do the experiments; especially in the matrimonial relationship. Try to understand the basics of his faith and of course their cultural values or tradition and again discuss and compromise with him. Remember one thing, if he is really a good Muslim then you are o.k. and will have no problem in future, bcs he will have permanent relationship for the rest of your with you; unlike what heappen in the Western society................just dating give few kids and let you live as single mom for the rest of your life.

Life is a gift of God so lead it wisely and happily, you will have no regret.....and it's all up to you to make it or brake it. I wish you happy marriage and best life ahead.

Yours brotherly,

Best regards,

TS

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