help- italian morrocan

Submitted by regina (United States), Sep 3, 2007 at 23:52

Hello All

I met a morrocan man in italy in January. Like other threads i read he told me he loved me after a week. I went back to Italy in May. I paid for our room and everything as he told me it was illegal for him to work, or better stated the work he received was not enough to pay for anything.

His friends and family seemed very nice, very reasonable. he wanted to marry me in italy.. it took too long. i went back to the states.. for the past 4 months i have been paying for his post-lito a small room. he never asks for any more money. I fight with him as I think he should go back to morroco and find a job and stay for free with his mother.. therefore I dont have to pay for his room.

tonight the major red flag went up as i needed some infor for him which required him buying a phone ticket to call home. I offered to help him by sending the equivalent of 40 euro. he wanted 50 euro. i became very mad.. because i am tired of him not getting it together. do you all think he is scamming me.

I am very upset right now... please help regina

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