answer for ..how can i understand if a muslim man trustworthy

Submitted by bulent Garip (United States), Sep 12, 2007 at 19:09

dear ladies..
When you want to have a relationship with a muslim man you must consider somethings. First, culture difference...people in some muslim countries because of wars etc etc are not educated..even islamic education was given by wrong men..Now they became muslims problems to clean their minds from that kind of minds. Like Taliban in Afghanistan.

Even their wives are not happy with them so dont be naive..consider the countries conditions. Dont believe them if they say ` we have no difference..but some muslim counrties like Turkey or Egypt you may find well educated men...so you must look for education first..

Second..you must check if they are religious or not.. they may be very religious ,little religious or not religious and some other kind people who doesnt care God..the last one i meant bad guys who can do bad things with a stone heart. you may preffer a very religious muslim man like my very religious female friend.. she wants a man who lives his religon..or you may choose little religious one or none religous one. Think...which one you would like. religion rules are the same with christianity...consider this..very religous one maybe like amish people who are very religous christian..So you should consider their life styles....

if they lie once do not trust them again.. and you must look for something on a man..the man must be family oriented..he must want a family first.and he must love his parents..love children...and must be sensitive about human beings and animals.nature..we are not mentioning about alliens from space ladies..they are human...they love,hate,miss, get angry,etc..you must try to know them carefully..

I am warning you ..you can not get to know anybody online without seeing..so never send money for visa. never promise to get marry before you see them and get to know them face to face. there are many happy women married with a muslim men...but there are many unhappy women divorced from immigrants..i say immigrants because men from mexico is the same about one thing...citizenship.you cant blame the thief if you dont lock your door...

As a summary...consider education,being religious,their personality and getting to know them face to face only and never send money...no man who is in love would ask for money..it is in men's nature..they can not ask money if they really didnt lose their heart to money..if they ask money that means they want citizenship..

God bless you all and help you all...as a last word..please dont blame God or religoin..remember that the rules are the same and we believe the same god and he doesnt order bad things.with his love i am in love with all god believers and mercyful for all humanbeing.i chat with fathers in churches..when they are in pain i cry in my prayers praying tp god for their pain...because you know what..we are just humans...we are one.i love you all..bye for know.

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