Sandra

Submitted by Tamara, Sep 20, 2007 at 07:40

Sorry to hear you are going through this Sandra. Men can be complicated. It does seem that some men test the limits of those who claim to love them. I believe they do this because they can not understand the pureness of love. Since we was raised in the USA. I will say it has nothling to do with culture- its just him.

If he says he loves you and that he will never marry you.- You have to be strong enough to say that is unacceptable for you. staying in a realionship that has no future. You are being disrespectful to yourself if you do. If you hope that if you stay and he will change his mind- he won't - because you have given him the right to use you with no committment.

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