I agree...

Submitted by Cheryl (United States), Sep 28, 2007 at 11:39

Hello Tammy,

God Bless you and I am so sorry that you are going through such a tough time. It seems like what you are saying is exactly the way it is. It is true, they will put the Religion and their Family over you in a heartbeat with no guilt. And they will cheat on you and not even feel any remorse about it. They will make tons of money and try to buy you, smoother you with their charm but, will not care about what you need emotionally at all.

Tammy, you are right, from my experience, my muslim man always sucked in bed and afterwards I would be saying hopefully he wil change.. 6 years later, he never did, never cared about giving me an orgasm or anything about pleasing me.. It was all about him!!! I thought I was the only one going through that, you are not alone! God help you get through this.. I just broke off my engagement to him because so many things were just not right about us getting married.. I saw him changing as we were preparing to get married.. I don't want that life, I feel like I would be trapped with no friends, family or love..

He wanted me to convert and become muslim and raise my kids muslim, etc. I don't think so, go find a muslim to marry, I can't change for a man, It would have to come from my heart.. I love being catholic. The muslim religion is so confusing and hypocritical. I do not find it peaceful and serene. I know it hurts to leave something you "think" you love but, I know it is best for the both of us.. He needs to find someone who will obey all of his commands regarding religion and him.. She will be lonely and frustrated, just as I was.. The things people do for love.. as it is said in the bible, find someone equally yoked.. The quran says that muslim men can marry christian women, not true, it does not work 9 times out of ten. If it does, it is always tough...

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