muslim men

Submitted by Shell (United Kingdom), Oct 4, 2007 at 23:20

I was with an iranian man for 4 years and im still not sure if it was good or not. He tended to love me on some days and tell me he didn't on others, i found out he always thought he could do better and was chatting up, emailing, texting other girls. I'm not sure if this was because he was muslim or because when i met him he was a pizza chef and by the time we ended he owned 3shops so i dont know if the money just went to his head (i never accepted any money and prefered him when he had none).

Now i am with a Turkish man and have been for the last 2month and @the moment everything is going great but i would't put up with it if he tried to tell me what to do. The Iranian man i was with keeps begging me to get back with him and get married etc which is everything i wanted at the time but now i'm not sure if its just because he knows i'm with somebody else and if everything will go back to how it was.

I do love him and always will but i because of that if he started making his rules up again i don't know if i could be strong enough whereas my new man i haven't let myself get involved in case he does that, it will be easier to walk away. What should i do? i am in love with the iranian man who treated me like nothing but is full of promises and might hurt me or i am happy with the turkish man who i haven't let close enough to hurt me...

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