TURKISH GUY

Submitted by texas (United States), Oct 9, 2007 at 11:57

i ran across this website and theres so many interesting things to read i dont know what to think anymore but ... i met a turkish guy online his name is umit and we have been talking for almost 2 years now cuz im really hesitant about this whole thing and especially after reading all these different posts.

anyhow i am going to meet him finally and im really worried becuz everything i have read sounds like him... i think maybe he just wants a visa or money i dont know which one or if both.. someone help me :( my best friend was listening to us talk on the phone and she heard everything... and she said oh my god this guy loves u so much how can u say no.

but im worried because he promises me the world and i have talked to his family and they sound so happy for us to be married and yet he he has asked me for money ... he told me first that the internet cafe is costing too much money for us to be talking everyday and if i can give him money .. at least half for him to buy a computer .. and he asked for me to help him open a cafe in turkey.. i told him no cuz if he loves me he will not ask for money... anyhow to make it short... i got his password and found emails from another american girl and he was asking her for the same thing. and i went to his website cuz he works at a bar in bodrum turkey and i found pictures of him with girls ... someone tell me am i right? this guy is a loser? he tells me he loves me so much and these are only friends he took pics with and i dont know what to do...

plz help, thanks !!!!!!!!

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