To Carmel, wishing you the best.

Submitted by Ynnatchkah (United States), Nov 24, 2007 at 00:31

1. First of all, I would suspect about the fact he cannot get a Visa to a country that is already Islamisized. Indeed, it would arise a double doubt, in addition to a third factor, which is perhaps he may be married, or even worst, catch you in his zone, where you cannot get any help if the worst come.

2. I remember, many years ago, I travelled to Egypt where I stayed alone for 3 weeks. I met a man, actually 2 me,n started to address me. One was a History Professor in an University in Cairo and the second one, a son of a "diplomat", from a wealthy family. Having said I came from South America, both not even had a doubt that I could have gotten there through Israel. regardless this issue, both, in less than 2 weeks wanted to get married. Well, they both at that time early 90s were in their thirties, considerably older than I, meaning there were not teens "in love". one even obligated me to know his family- How pathethic.

Feeling pressure from both sides, I ended up getting rid of the Professor History by stating that a "diplomat" (Islamic Arab) son, was interested on me, dismissing the "professor" as a result, and got rid of the second by literally going back to Israel, as soon as possible.

Although both treated me very dearly, with sighseeings and dinings, looking so western, even speaking some French, their background was evident, when in diferent ocasions they both stated that one day Israel and ever single aly will cease to exist. Their Islamic nackgounrd screamed louder.

So even though this Egyptian looks so good cybernetically, I believe, due to the information you provided that he is NOT a good soil to put your feet on, and to be honest, having also been in the UK in the 90s, I found many dear men there, perhaps, b/c they were erudite /orchestra musicians, belonging to my "metier" at that time, but still excellent men, so why don't you try right over there, or countries that share cultures and language like yours, such as New Zealand, Australia, the US and Canada?

Please, do not be angry at me, if I finalize this posting by saying that much of your certainty about Mr. Egyptian "Right" is due to personal frustration, solitude, loneliness, a little bit of addiction to the Internet Interface, etc...

Plot over E-Harmony, Match.com, so many Web Sites where you can restart a relationship.

And, if everything I said is gibberish, than let this "Mr. Egyptian Right" come to the UK. Meet him in your "performing" ring, with assistance and even second opinions.

You may not only be putting your life on the edge, but 3 other ones. And, only if he were Christian for sure....To what you wrote, he seems as Muslim.

Wishing you the best possible Happy End,

Ynnatchkah

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