reply to margaret

Submitted by maurita (United Kingdom), Nov 27, 2007 at 08:53

dear margaret, thanks for your reply. why wouldnt i tell the world if it stops one woman going through the same? it is worth it the moroccans are the only men that are decieving women this way. look at all the other comments on this site. my auntie had the same done, my mum my friend, so please dont say about moroccans. how long have you been married ? you seem so sure this wont happen.

i'm not bitter as i'm happy i know i'm away from that man. believe me, he still tries to come round to me so its not that my husband just went with another woman, i have a 10 month old baby to him and before i was pregnant he said give him time so he could sort divorce with the second moroccan wife, i was the first wife, so i give him the time i fell pregnant but that ruined his plans as he was in the process of marrying the 3moroccan wife .

now he does not want to know her he has messed about so long i have a son 16 to him also and a son 7 .so please dont say i'm bitter. my children have been put through this all these years, him pretending to be with us but behind our back marrying other women. so have you been with him that long? we go back 16 years our marriage was only a lie. thats what i want people to know it wasnt a case of him just cheating, the marriage was a lie.

he knew all along what his intentions were. he could of left us alone. he used to come to my house when i left him drunk and kicking my door in i wasnt allowed to leave him and get on with my life . he came recently and i got the police . you see, im telling the world i have not done anything to be ashamed of. i was a very good wife and mother .

i'm a single parent. he gives me nothing, even when we lived together he didnt .now he sends money over for his new wife. my beautiful daughter has not even had a penny from him, so dont you judge, because it could happen to you. if it doesnt ,great, but you are very lucky you are now aware of it . i wasnt.

i was in my 20s now im 39 i wished i was warned. i loved him and gave him all the chances but he was a good deciever. i'm ashamed that him and his family dont bother about my little girl. he sees the other 2 children , he doesnt want the 3 wife to know that while he was getting married etc to her he was always with me and i had another child to him, so she doesnt know she exists. so if anyone know abdessamad aouani new wife let her know my child sienna does exist .

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