Help please

Submitted by Jen (United States), Dec 12, 2007 at 14:07

Ok this is going to sound really bad but I would like some help here. I have been having an affair with a married muslim man (I too am married) I am Lutheran. It goes against both of our religions... It is your typical affair for the most part. I did run him thru the internet system and found that he had been chatting with others, many others. I know this is wrong for both of us, so please don't beat me up please as I do it to myself everyday...

Anyway, He and his wife have been here from Pakistan for 7 yrs. They are both employed and you can probably guess in what field.. Anyway.. Is he different from any other man that cheats on his wife? Him being Muslim? Im sure this is going to be a short term mid life crisis deal.. we are not getting married, we are just enjoying each others company once in a while....I guess I really dont know what to ask....

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