Please, dont do this...

Submitted by kirina (Poland), Dec 15, 2007 at 13:48

Please, dont do this, for the sake of your future children...Even if your boyfriend is a liberal muslim now, he will change as soon as you will have children together...Usually the older the man become, the more radical his behaviour is...

Muslim men usually marry western girls just to get visa/citizenship/green card...so on...and they usually lie before marriage- that the wife wont have to wear hijab, that the children can be christians, that he will never beat her, that he will not take another wife...so on...

Sincerily- do you want to write another" Not without my daughter" dramatic story ??There are thousands of this kind of books, but still women marry muslims...maybe someone should analyze this in terms of psychology...Do you want to hide for the rest of your life in shelters for battered women for example??

You come from a great country- all the world is fascinated with Japanese culture...Sudoku, origami, bonzai trees, samurais, kimono, buddhism zen soto, shinto, sumo, movies, books, food, kendo, martial arts, countless Nobel prize winners, superpower in science, politness etc...

Do you honestly want to switch all these to become one of the million of opressed muslim woman??Dont believe the lying that islam reveres woman- the truth is honour killings, beatings, burning alive, forced marriages, rape in marriage which is not even rape in islam, domestic violence,polygamy....??

Are you ok with the fact that your boyfriend can marry up to four women??
That he can beat you if he suspects ypur disobedience??Thats all in the Quran...

If I were you I wouldnt believe that he is a virgin...Probably it is just a lie in order to make you feel worthless and dirty...

In Japan you have a phrase- that a girl is a Christmas cake if she didnt marry till 26 years of age...Dont worry, dont make haste...Probably some great handsome Japanese man is waiting for you, please dont make the biggest mistake of your life...

Do you know that Mohamed didnt even pray for his mother Amina because she was not a muslim??
You will have to break all your ties with non muslims- and for what??

Please take care, and let us know what is going on in your life...

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