pregnant by ex bf

Submitted by Kellie (United States), Dec 30, 2007 at 11:33

i dated a Moroccan guy for 6 months. He just recently dumped me because i wasn't obedient to him. Our relationship was great at first and the sex was amazing but something just didn't seem right . I just found out that i am pregnant but i don't him involved w me or the baby. He has already married someone else and he is telling me his wife is pregnant.

How do I hide from him I pregnant. Cause i don't want him involved he was emotionally, physically , sexually abusive to me. He raped me the night i got pregnant cause i didn't want to have sex with him. I did report it. and he is awaiting trail also on those charges and he is telling everyone i am a liar and i am just jealous of his wife and i want to be his wife and he is also saying he never slept w me. Which is completely untrue cause I have a little one in my womb that can prove otherwise.

I also filed for a restraining order which I will hear about on Monday. Right now I am so scared but I want to do what is best for me and my child which means getting as far away from him. I am only 18 and I am having to deal with all of this . I never thought the man I loved would turn out to be such a selfish pig. I have learned not to date any guys that are Muslim. My hope from posting this is to at least save one person from making the kind of mistakes that I made .

Don't be tricked by their charm cause they are like snakes they can turn around and strike when they don't want you or when you are not what they want,i dated a Moroccan guy for 6 months. He just recently dumped me because i wasn't obedient to him. Our relationship was great at first and the sex was amazing but something just didn't seem right . I just found out that i am pregnant but i don't him involved w me or the baby. He has already married someone else and he is telling me his wife is pregnant. i don't wan him involved he was emotionally, physically , sexually abusive to me. He raped me the night i got pregnant cause i didn't want to have sex with him.

I did report it. and he is awaiting trial also on those charges and he is telling everyone i am a liar and i am just jealous of his wife and i want to be his wife and he is also saying he never slept w me. Which is completely untrue cause I have a little one in my womb that can prove otherwise. I also filed for a restraining order which I will hear about on Monday. Right now I am so scared but I want to do what is best for me and my child which means getting as far away from him.

I am only 18 and I am having to deal with all of this . I never thought the man I loved would turn out to be such a selfish pig. I have learned not to date any guys that are Muslim. My hope from posting this is to at least save one person from making the kind of mistakes that I made . Don't be tricked by their charm cause they are like snakes they can turn around and strike when they don't want you or when you are not what they want,

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