should i marry morroccan man from internet (response)

Submitted by diane (United States), Jan 10, 2008 at 22:33

well, if you honestly want my opinion, I would like to know first why do you have to go see him #1 and # 2 why are you buying the airplane ticket and he not helping you?

this is a little sign, if he wants you there so much let him save the money to get you there or let him wait to he gets his citizenship together then tell him you will marry and see what he says. if he gets upset and say you don't trust him you know something is wrong. if he says ok, ill wait, then you know he really cares for you because he is showing you that he can get the citizenship by himself and not with your help.

I know you probably do not want to hear this but right now the hijab is not a problem with him but if you marry, he will make you wear it when you come around his family and you will see him change a little unless you become muslim, because if not his family may disown him for being with you. so really the ball is in your park. You have the last word in this either wait for him to demonstrate his love or you sacrifice becoming muslim to make him happy.

but let me ask this what about you.Are YOU happy? If you are muslim because you love Allah, then great kudos to you then I suggest standing by your finance side and just wait on him, but just stay aware of the situation. People are talking about muslims being bad, it is not just them, it can be any man a cheater and liar has no race , and no religion. remember this please and keep your mind open.

I have one last thing to say , you must be careful trying to find any man on the internet because they can easily lie.

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