This is NOT the place for catfights!

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Jan 19, 2008 at 19:05

O Mee-owww Christina!!

you have got me sooo wrong!! And I havw so much experience in this I should write a book! U mistook my "bottom line" advice as being harsh. I m soooo sypathetic it's ridiculous!! That's why I m here! EVERY sister here is here to HELP never HURT each other. Sorry you were offended but this blog is not for "single issues" amongst readers....What was YOUR advice to her on this matter. Sadly Muslim man MOST OFTEN feel if YOU slept w/ him , then you surely will sleep w/ another... they do NOT want that in a wife. It was a test , she failed. LESSON LEARNED.

I sooo don't want another to hurt as much as I did... The pain/foolishness is UNBEARABLE. AND it's more devastating because you CAN NOT share w/others "O. I have fallen madly in love w/some Arab/Middle Eastern man !!" Society would think we were mad!! Who else can we turn to w/o JUDGEMENT ?? I am lucky my husband is at least HERE in US. Imagine what I go through when they found out he was not a citizen?? They automatically assumed he wants green card!! Imagine what I go through counting down to that 2 year period when he could possibly "dump me"!! Aye my worries r deep inside my heart...so lucky I found this site to discuss his altered behaviour pretty much right after we got married...

Next question??

Also , I am 41 years old...plz respect my age and WISDOM. NEVER toss away the advice of someone who has walked the road that lies ahead of you...and NEVER argue w/an elephant in the middle of a stampede...

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