I know it seems hard...

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jan 21, 2008 at 22:26

But, those things always are. It doesn't matter who the person is, you loved them very much, but try to keep looking forward, getting on with your life.

If this is someone that you don't have a future with, you may have to take the intiative and cut the string, as you say. It seems to me from what you say like you will not ultimately be happy with this man. I know this sounds trite, but he's not the only nice one out there. Trust me.

You clearly have a bright future ahead of you, and it's there for the taking, all you have to do is go get it.

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