To Just Another

Submitted by Abby (United States), Jan 21, 2008 at 22:34

Hi Just,

Wow. You say you have seen a little bit of the sneakiness and lies? That's like being a little bit pregnant. He is sneaky and a liar. Right there you are saying that you already know he is not for real.

You say you are helping him save for a visa to come here? Why help him when you know he's lying to you? I'm sure he is a charmer.
Why would he have to tell you that he is NOT a practicing Muslim? This shows he's afraid that you might have heard things about Muslim men that he does NOT want you to relate to him.

You're already are saying that you are afraid that he likes money too. What was said to you by him to make you know this? And why is this a topic?

It sounds to me like you already have your answer, and you already know what the outcome is going to be. If you want to continue with him, you need to prepare for a let down if all you see negative in him now, gets worse.

I think that you came to this site maybe to have someone say, "you already know the truth so dump him" or "hey, you're just imagining things, this guy is on the level with you". Either way, I think you already know what you don't want to hear. Sorry for the way he is treating you.

Take care.
Best to you
Abby

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