Sakia, I think I am fool for Algerian...

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Jan 26, 2008 at 11:54

Sakia, My Algerian was here in America...we met & immediatly the second meeting he proposed marriage. We married w/in 30 days. I had just come from bad breakup, 40years old, and tired of being alone...I accepted. Some things he said before marriage: Do not tell anyone so that they will not change your mind, He absolutely does not want children w/me, says we r too old. And he "lives" w/ elder female roomate. AND STILL DOES!! He visits me on his days off from work. I hv never been inside his apartment . We have been married for 5 months .NOW he is moving in BUT he just told me this morning that he still has to stay in OTHER apartment 3 days to work {he does not work in my state}. I don't want to believe that this guy just married me for green card but after today what else to think??

Now, in Algeria he is doctor ,41 years...I just can't believe he is not married!! Why would a handsome, young doctor not have a wife?? My question...where can I find the absolute truth?? My "intuition" is telling me this guy is going to leave me so fast! I don't want to be lonely...I want him to meet my friends and he always refuses. Of course he has met my family etc...BUT I have not met any of his friends that constantly call, write, etc. I am full figured lady and maybe he is embarrassed of me??

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