Wow Yasemin...thanks for sharing

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Jan 27, 2008 at 14:03

Dear Yasemin,

Your posts are always sooo deep! I hope everyone learns from you. As I have stated before, my man is in USA but home country is Algeria...Here is my situation and some "red flags"

-Met in August married end of August...he said don't tell anyone we are marrying so they will not change my mind...hmm..

-Lives w/"elderly" female roomate AND STILL DOES!!, he works in different state than me so it's convenient for him to stay there he stays w/me on his days off from work...hmmm

-Get's VERY defensive if I question him about him or his past.

-In Algeria he is doctor but never married??

-Has single "sister" in France w/2 children...I m sure it is not wife because she looks exactly like my husband...but I do worry.

-He absolutely refuses to have child w/me...says we r too old.

So those are my red flags...any others??

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