Honey, face the reality....

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Jan 29, 2008 at 21:18

Dear Lisa,

I am sure you like this guy very much, but the norm is for the man to find a YOUNGER wife to have many children with. When you are older it is usually just for green card dear. This allows them to more than likely not have any children w/ you and take younger wife. Often when you are older they will want you to provide for them!! If you can afford, visit his country...then see the reactions and how you feel.

All the best to you. Remember a man is judged on the beauty and youth of his wife in Muslim culture.

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