same experience

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Feb 2, 2008 at 15:23

I experienced the exact same thing, Annie. He was soooo incredibly sweet and loving in the beginning - never saw anything like it before - wanted to be with me every second and so when friends warned me i thought they were just paranoid.

And then when the money wasn't accessible any longer and the visa was refused, i was immediately disposable. I too feel like a fool. I too am alone. I worry that these women don't know how it feels to one day be adored and then the next day abandoned without warning and with all contact cut off. Mine only stayed in touch to try to persuade me to sign the divorce paper. That was so cruel knowing my husband called me only because he wanted the other woman.

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