staight talker

Submitted by sash (Ireland), Feb 2, 2008 at 21:45

luigi..........

I now you're gonna find this odd, but i'm asking your advice..I'm on this site maybe 3 weeks, not only me, myself and d hubby........ now yrs of no problems, well little disagrements,every marriage has them, but recently my husband is speakin a load ... about christians which he never did b4.

I'l fill you in,my mother is protestant, my father was catholic but changed 2 marry my mother. as a child i found it hard 2 believe that my dad's family would reject my father over his decision, so at a v.young age i decided much 2 my mothers despair that i believe in god but was, and being now 32 in feb i'm still confused about religion. i do believe there is a god, but religion i don't know where to turn r what choice is right....... i've always been stuck on this subject and try to believe that i know rites frm wrongs and it's up 2 me to know the rites frm wrongs.... anyway

my 1st child, his dad is RC so i z frm d begining" daddy u want r son RC it's up 2 U to bring him 2 Mass, Communion ect,

Well now as i mentioned b4, Daddy is alcoholic and i do all that and my son is going to mass because he's makin his confirmation in may, i go with him and stand up 4 his beliefs....... as u do as a mother but it is affecting my marriage.................. my son comes 1st, he's only 12 but as off this week my husband is saying that " i know u'll have all 4 kids RC's".

Now he's using it all as an excuse to drink all nite in bars and ther'es girls ringing the house at all hrs of the nite.. I know what i have to do and am in court on the 6th of this month 2 bar him frm the house.......i'm not even sure why i'm saying all this cuz i know you're thinking, "told ya so". I don't know what to think or do, am i just been paranoid or am i rite to take the court action that i've started?

Regards

Sash

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