of course you're right too Lani...

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Feb 2, 2008 at 22:03

Lani , you are right, your view is lovely & positive...I just want to make sure women know "behind the scenes" how these guys think...Don't forget: If they really loved you they will marry you in Mosque. Islam does not recognize our "civil' marriages so that is how these men truly walk away from us like that! Listen, too many women here are telling you that lavish attention they pour on you WILL END.

We are just saying they often change w/o warning. One situation I was in the man used to feed me! Another, every moment he would say how beautiful I am. Etc...the next moment when I'd call his cell it was like I was some annoying little puppy that he would "shoo" away. I want these women to know they are not alone.

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