Hmmmmm

Submitted by Involved with a Turk (United States), Feb 3, 2008 at 15:38

Hi Sarah!!

I was wondering.. I know you wrote this some time ago, but how are things now?? Does he pay you alimony? Did you live together here in the states or did you move to Turkey to live with him?? Were you married here or there?

Sorry I have so many questions.. but its nice to exchange experiences. Im currently involved with a Turkish man, and while he has never given me any reason or inclination to believe he is an a-hole, i know a lot of people around the world are!

He seems to be genuiine.. I mean he's not all, romantic, in lovey all the time.. although he does express his feelings.. he is cautious about it with me though because he has known me a long time. It took him 8 months to tell me he loves me.. although he has always shown it in other ways... he takes the time to be with me, and talk to me.. and we talk and talk.. but I am just curious about your living arrangements with him and your child situation... as my Turk has recently brought up the idea of getting married.. He didn't propose, just mentioned us being married, and having children.

he asked how I would feel about it.. and IF i wanted more children.. so I am curious. :)

Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments".