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Submitted by lani (United States), Feb 10, 2008 at 16:25

I hope someone on this site will give you some good advice. There are some women on here who has had experience marrying , living, talking or proposed to.... that may have a good answer for you. Personally, it sounds like he wants you for a visa. Who am I to say, that it is his real intention.

For a man to say he will marry you soon as you come sounds very fishy. Knowing someone on the computer is much more different when you meet him in person. Some muslim men love to talk sex like any man in any part of the world, but most times they have no respect for the foreign woman. They think we are "loose" and sex is an everyday thing for us.

Only thing I can say to you is, use your best judgement and take some of the advice you may receive from some of the women on this site. I think your man is still married and will remain married to his wife. The visa will only provide a better opportunity to make their lives better and possibly make yours a living hell. Good luck and make the best choice.

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