yasemin

Submitted by Me (United States), Feb 12, 2008 at 14:16

Your post made me feel sick. How can a person be so heartless and worse, evil?? I can't believe all you went through with a man that you loved and thought he loved you. It's sickening..... How did you ever make it back to Canada??

2) He tells you online the first time that he lives in Boston, then changes the story to having visited the USA then says he made it up. I thought he was trying to impress me because he gaves the impression he didn't know english but after only a short time - one year maybe - you notice his command of english - the fine details of stress and symbolism to give impact to words - seem to have been mastered by him magically. So maybe he was looking for an american woman and figured that a canadian wife would give easy access to the USA. Maybe he WAS living there once and the visa expired and now he needs a way back in.

I have been talking for almost a year to a man that I met on a USA dating site. He listed his name as a very "American" name with a city in the USA. The first time we talked on messenger I noticed he had a very "Muslim" name, and I asked him where he was from. He told me he was from Morocco. He said he was living in the USA at the time he joined that site. He had a tourist visa at one time but it ran out. Now he is trying to get a work visa to come here. We have been talking marriage for a few months, and he says if the work visa doesn't go through, we'll get married in Morocco. He in somewhat fluent in english, but not that well. He mixes tenses and sometimes we have a language barrier...

I have been reading your posts and I can't believe what you have gone through.........I hope you will find the guy that will treat you like you deserve.

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