how do i get out if this ?

Submitted by susie buck (United Kingdom), Feb 12, 2008 at 19:33

around nine months ago i met an egyptian guy who followed me home, just making general conversation, he was not at all threatening and i did not feel uncomfortable with him, any way after we got to my door he asked me if we could meet the next day, we did and i started seeing him

on most days when he was not in work ( in a kebab shop) i am really not a stupid woman ... but i really did not think he was lying to me when he said he had a uk visa. anyway it turns out he has not got a visa and came to the uk via greece, france, and the back of a truck ! i have also found out that he is married in egypt with three kids !

however he seems to think he can go back to egypt, (how i dont know) the same way he came i think, and he wants me to meet him in egypt later and we can get married, although he swears he loves me and is not after a uk visa ! lol

i have found other women's numbers on his phone which he says are just friends..my problem is now i don't believe a word he says to me any more, but he won't leave me alone, and cant see that he has done any wrong by his lies and he still keeps on phoning me asking to see me cos he loves me and cant live without me ! ..... how can i get him to get the message and sod off back to his country and his wife...

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