Farrah

Submitted by von (United States), Feb 12, 2008 at 21:54

I did exactly what you done to your muslim, to my muslim friend. I told him I would convert and I wanted to marry in the muslim way. He reacted the same way, looking so dumb-founded.

He told me the Imam was for devout muslims and that we will be married in the muslim way and the legal way in the same ceremony. When I read these comments I want to run from him, but I am afraid I have gotten in too deep. He is so loving and kind to me, yet I still feel like I am a visa.

If he is divorced will he have two sets of papers for the legal marriage and the Islamic marriage? I am afraid that if I marry this man, he could walk away. Can immagration do something to these men lying and using us like this?

I went on a "find people" search site and I found an awful lot of men here in America with his exact name (68 men to be exact) with his name. That was very strange, so I told him about it. He said his name was common. I am truly in love with him and he say the same about me. I just want to find out more info before I marry him.

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