what do i do could he be playing with me ?

Submitted by concerned aussie girl (Australia), Feb 22, 2008 at 01:50

my moroccan bf has just lost his job one week ago when i asked him why he says if he didnt lift up heavy things up stairs he will be sacked, so his boss gave him the flick and booted him. now he has not got a job! could this be true?. i have noticed lately he has been going out a fair bit ,so he says with his friends, and hardly speaking to me. and lately i have seen a real change in him like his attitude towards me .

I was raped last year and now i am 20 months pregant when i told him i am going out for the day he made a comment" you going out to have lots of babies wht he said to me really hurt like crazy and he is continuing to say bad words.Is this a sign of something ? I dont really know what to think anymore i am so confused.

He manages to go out everyday at the same time from 2pm to 8.30pm. when i ask him what have you been doing, he said nothing much, just talking to friends .This is another thing he had always to play on cam, if you know what i mean, and since i have been refusing i have a feeling he is playing with someone else as i have sat here watching him and telling him i am going out.

Another thing too i have notice he said he is so tired and falls asleep, well not unles he is making it up. when i do go out i wait for 15 minutes and he is either talking to someone or he is doing something else on net and he is wide awake. He goes on cam quite regualerly when i am asleep and saying it is power and msn!.He also hasn't said he loved me in about a week now which i find unusual, considering he had always say it each day for 2 and half years . should i be worried ?

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