Muslim men hot or cold? why do they change their minds how do we know if they are honest or just users

Submitted by Mary (Ireland), Feb 23, 2008 at 16:57

Hi everyone, im dating a muslim man, he pursued me.....told me he's not religious...........3 months later he is religious praying 5 times a day. i have no problem with the man being religious then he changes less interest i have to call him. ramadan starts, i dont hear from him for 2 months.............so i finally get the courage to text and say ok, i get it, you dumped me without even telling me............

so he begs me to meet him for a talk,t o fix things..........i think were together. he acts like we are too. i dont hear again for another 2 weeks.......he blames his phone this time.....says he really really likes me and respects me but doesn't know what hes doing?????

so do i tell him where to go.............bye bye .............

or try to understand him more....i have been reading a lot on islam i think it is a beautiful religion......i want to learn more not for him for me. i have always been interested.........but for some reason i couldnt help but feel insulted when he told me about the eid party he had for people they had lots of food etc and he said, oh, if you were muslim you could have come ....

but i'm not so i feel like im being punished or something by not being invited ---even though i dont expect invitations, it was just the way he said you could have come, but!!!!!!....for him he may have done no wrong but from where i am i feel like my heart is being ripped in 2 as i have never felt like this before about anyone .

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