MOVE ON!!!!! TO Heartbroken

Submitted by Life is Beautiful (Ireland), Feb 25, 2008 at 16:11

My dear,

I read your article and I have to say only one thing: MOVE ON. This is a virutal relationship and it can make you addicted to something and someone who is not next to you but MILES away. I am not allowed to criticise anyone because I have to criticise myself and my life because I am 7 years with a muslim man. if you read my previous articles my experiences are there in anaytical way.

I am not against muslim people the opposite, they are generous ,hospitable ,warm and friendly and they have principles in life but as all the cultures and countries they are bad and good.I have no idea what are the intentions of your Tunisian man but I have been in Tunisia 2 times with my boyfriend and once with 3 girlfriends and I have to say that I saw many couples of 20 years old man and 50 years foreigner woman beside them and it was so OBVIOUS that they were with them cause of GETTING a VISA to escape from their country.

I do nt want to generalise people just USA and EUROPE are more developed than some counties and they want to live for few years there.Also they want to experience the freedom of doing everything boozing,having sex and be crazy and to taste all the kind of experiences before they will go back to their countries and marry the most of the times VIRGIN MUSLIM WOMAN.

Be Careful I have to say that I know muslim man faithful to their european girls but these people have some kind of level a social educaiton and they treat them pretty much like european man but the main problem is that when it comes to wedding and family issue they want musim children and for that the break up happens the most of the times except girls who accept that and they sacrifice that in order to be with them.Love is Blind and allowed a lot of things.

I suggest you to move on to stop this internet obcession of communicating with him like you are boyfriend and girlfriend.You are a single mother and this is difficult and hard on its own you do nt need an extra difficulty in your life and to worry about visas,invitations,different cultures that you might be suspicious if he wants you for the green card or for your personality?all these questions will never stop from your head.Now if you are so curious to meet him you will go to Tunisia and have a trip there to see where he is living and who is his family if you will be allowed to meet them.

Tunisia is quite open country as it is open in Tourism and people are more liberal than other countries of North Africa.But one thing in the end of the day the religion is BIG ISSUE if you are strong to face it then go ahead and GOOD LUCK.If you are completed as a woman and you are not interested to have bigger family and to not get married you can always be with a muslim man.

good luck

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