huge mistake

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Feb 26, 2008 at 18:49

You haven't read anything i wrote, have you ? I see red flags all over your story and no wonder your family is concerned. You are rushing into something without really knowing this person, like i did.

Huge red flag is the lack of interest in the immigration documents - my husband wasn't interested either and it turned out he was just marrying me to get as much money as possible so he could then marry the girl he already had. I thought he'd be thrilled to come to Canada and could never understand why he didn't give me the documents i needed. It's because he was just waiting for me to die from the poison so he could get his hands on my money. Notice how Canada immigration advice says it's good to show he's your beneficiary ? It almost cost me my life. Be very careful if you marry. Guard your bank card number while he's around.

If you go through with this ( which would be nothing short of stupid ) then check to see if he changes his ID card marital status from single to married ( if they have to carry one there ) after you marry. If he doesn't then bingo you know you were forewarned. Catch 22 is you won't know til after you marry him.

You are making a huge mistake rushing this.

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