another big reason not to marry on short notice

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Feb 26, 2008 at 19:06

I went to my bank one day to get part of my pension released. This was after leaving Turkey, after all the abuse and death threats etc and the bank guy who knew i was married, said You'll need your husband to sign also.

One day you might be up the creek because your husband disappeared and you can't get the divorce and you can't access your own money here in Canada.

Girl you don't even know how deep the water is you're heading into. Your life can be totally destroyed like mine was. Yes but he loves me - i can hear you saying this. Yes but he's so cute and so romantic and so loving. Wait til he wraps the noose ( ie ring ) around your neck. Can you take any children you have with him back to canada ?

go ahead and marry him and see what happens.......

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