ok...fine

Submitted by cinderellacats (Canada), Feb 27, 2008 at 20:49

FYI...My son has also been is will continue to be first in my life. The fact that I don't talk about it is because it is a given. If there is any sign of abuse, believe me, the first sign will be the last. That includes my son and I. My parents live only a few blocks away and I know how to dial 911. Marriage is not a permission slip for abuse, regardless of where a person is from.

I had a contract legal drawn that he has agreed to sign (we talked about this months ago) where he waves all rights and claim to any of my investments, money, car, possesions or home. He is not a beneficary of my insurance or in my will. If he has some secret sweety back in Morocco, that he intends to go back for, then what can I say. There are lying cheating men right here at home too. The thing is that you should never be with anyone that you feel you can not trust. I feel that I can trust him. We have spoken with each other every single day, hours on end for months now. I have spent more time talking with him that I have with any other person I have ever been involved with prior to getting into a relationship with.

In conclusion, I did not join this blog to be verbally abused. Kind of thought it was a support group type a thing. Toss experience and questions back and forth, that sort of thing. The reality is that each of our final decisions are ultimately our own to make. It is obvious that I have worn out my welcome here.

Bye all.

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