Here is your advice...

Submitted by sara (United States), Feb 28, 2008 at 22:09

Annie!

It sounds to me that you are being used. plain and simple. I only hope you can get something back for the place they conned you into buying. It will probably be taken over by his family.

DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN!!! That is the absolutely last thing that you need, to introduce legal issues into this mess. Whichever is true, his parents think you are too old, or he wants you for a visa, either choice is UNACCEPTABLE!

Please have some self respect! You are putting yourself in a position to be humiliated and even harmed. Get away from this man as soon as possible, cut off all contact, get on with your life, and meet a decent man that your children can be proud of you with.

I wish you would take this advice, from a stranger who has no stake in this, other than to give you an honest and objective opinion.

good luck...

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